tight knots, loose ties & and everything in between…

Last week I posted photographs of fabric fraying with this quote: “Once the fabric of a just society is undone, it takes generations to weave it back together.” —Deepak Chopra

Well, it sure sparked some interesting dialogue. Right now, I do feel that it could potentially take generations to weave our society back together. However, as a rather optimistic realist…I wholeheartedly believe we can. Don’t we all want to feel safe, loved, connected and purposeful? What if we focused on our similarities, not our differences? Threads.

Humans need threads—tight, loose and in-between to other people, places and groups. How we choose to connect our threads is up to us individually.

Are we going to weave from a place of FEAR or LOVE?

When we’re anxious or fearful we tend to look outside of ourselves to make sense of our feelings. It’s so much easier to scan for someone or something else to blame than to be self-reflective and take responsibility for our emotions and actions. I would sooooo much rather blame someone else than acknowledge my own bullshit. I’m working on it. It’s a process.

Right now, it seems to me that politics are filling some sort of identity gap where other threads should be continually and carefully woven.

WHY? Why now?

Our party affiliation won’t ever bring us homemade soup when we’re sick, pick up a middle-of-the-night call when we’re in distress or just show up, even when we don’t understand what we actually need ourselves.  

seek love, beauty & kindness today

“I’m big because I’m connected to the universe, and the universe is connected to me.” —Neil deGrasse Tyson

We are all BIG.  We can all affect big CHANGE even in the life of one other being.  We are so much bigger than this election.  We are bigger than we can possibly imagine.  The hardest part is BELIEVING this is so.  WE can solve the biggest issues before us and our families, it’s not our government.  It’s not ONE person.  It’s US.  It’s ALL of us working together.  The AMERICAN SPIRIT has proven this over and over.

We all want to THRIVE and to do so it takes TEAMWORK. 

SEEK LOVE, BEAUTY & KINDNESS TODAY.

We’re all going to be just fine, no matter what the headlines are tomorrow.

The world is a complicated place…

thankfully we have a choice every day.

lisa lillibridge love and hate